What does it takes to be a sniper? Getting a knife at your back, how does it feels like? Awful! Rotten tomatoes that can seriously injure your personality without you knowing may cause irreversible damage and poor reputation.
Breaking on a previously agreed norms produces moral and psychological conflict within relationship among individuals.Their infestation leads to anger, one of our strongest and most common emotion associated with betrayal. Deadly annoying.
There are facts that present themselves that can back up your instincts. Proofs of suspicion, there will be no more hideous gray area to capture. If you are smart enough, you see things others do not. If you do not belong, better luck next life!
The lineage of rats. If they came from a family of rats, being coward and having a bigmouth is usually an inherited trait. Expect the son to be as stupid. You can start smelling the stench through their own actions and by refusing to face responsibilities.
This involves broken trust. Lost and insecurity:
- They rat on you. Grassing up vows of silence and secrecy.
- They have rackets on the other side. Feeding hungry ears.
- They steal from you. Selling your entrusted possessions.
- They help your enemies. Gaining power and authority.
- They purposely deceive you. Getting information to disseminate.
- They idiotly slips. Catching a big fish in their own tongue.
- They go against character. Deviating seriously from the benchmark.
- They are two-faced. Insulting a good name beneath you.
- They humiliate privately or publicly. Creating destruction.
As with anything, you have a severe aversion too. You learn to recognize it, deal with it and eliminate it. We all know how to value trust and loyalty, you give 100% you get back the same or even more. The simplest rule in the universe.
A rule of thumb: anytime somebody does something to you and the thought of murdering the guy crosses your mind, chances are you were betrayed. Of course, there are plenty of jerks out there that you want to put out to pasture.
Whatever treachery it is, one thing you ought to know is that there is no second chances in life. You have to cut your losses and dissociate yourself from that person, otherwise you are a stooge and deserves to be double-crossed all over again.
01/27/2010 0125
this is what i was telling you earlier.... if the people who betrayed your trust is inconsequential to you, then cut your losses and dissociate yourself from that person.... you don't need them as they are not important to your happiness.... stick to people who make you happy..... you don't need the excess baggage that they give you.
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